Full disclosure: I do not know who Iggy Azalea is, nor do I really want to.
I'm old. I'm not hip. I'm not cool. I'm okay with this.
|I am told this is an Iggy Azalea. Source|
Just as gross as the load of people who are using this to spew the same old rape-apologist B.S. about how women, when going certain places and doing certain things, should expect to be assaulted, even though it's totally bad and wrong and of course no one is saying it's okay, but that still, we should expect these kinds of things. Cue shrug.
Nope, sorry. No one should expect to be sexually assaulted in any context and nobody should shrug it off like it's just one of those things.
The two popular arguments seem to be A) Men are disgusting, so we should just expect them to be disgusting and violate us; or B) People who are crowd-surfing should expect to be touched because duh! Women like Azalea are just being over sensitive.
The A crowd are doing both women and men a huge disservice because they basically imply that a man's default setting is rapist, and that women need to suck it up and just not go anywhere. It's patently untrue. Most men are capable of controlling themselves in almost any situation. We call these men 'decent people who fucking get that you don't assault others'. This argument also ignores that she said that BOTH men and women have done this.
I believe the B crowd probably haven't bothered to read the actual article.
There's a big difference between someone brushing or palming your boob or ass to support you as you're passed overhead, and what Azalea described in her interview. Not sure what the lingo in other places is, but where I come from, "fingering" refers pretty blatantly to digital penetration of the vagina. Which is something that is pretty damn difficult to do by accident. Not to mention that in her interview she cites people actually tweeting her saying that they were going to try and 'finger' her while she's surfing the crowd.
I will get lurk tweets for like a week before my show, like 'I'm about to go to the Iggy Azalea show and I'm going to finger her,' and I'll see it and be like, please don't!," she said. "That's a violation. I don't actually like that stuff."If you tweet a celebrity to tell them outright that you plan to assault them at a show, then all arguments about "accidental" grabs and brushes being blown out of proportion flies right out the window.