In the past 36 hours I've dealt with two situations that bothered me to no end, for this reason: excessive rudeness from total strangers in situations where I was trying to be considerate. In at least one situation, I reacted badly, and thus continued the cycle of negativity.
Where is the love, people?
Scenario one: I'm at Edgefest this saturday, and I'm a little peckish, so I go to get a hotdog. Now, being that this is an outdoor concert at a large venue, I'm fully prepared for the prospect of paying stupid-high prices for something as simple as a hot dog. So I'm only a little surprised when I ask the hot dog vendor the price and he says 'five bucks'. However, at the time he was handing another customer a sausage and said 'Sausage'. I was not sure if he had misunderstood me, so to clarify I say "That's five for a hot dog, right?"
This guy, looks me straight in the eye with a death stare and says "Did I stutter?" I'm absolutely taken aback.
I'll admit, my response was not-so-eloquent. I put my wallet back in my pocket, gave him the finger and told him to fuck himself. But really, I'm already paying five bucks for a hot dog, I don't need a side of attitude.
Scenario Two: I'm driving through Victoria Harbour, on the way home from my parents place, and there's a ... hrm... gentleman on a bike riding along the road. He has a number of cleaning supplies strapped across his bike, so it's basically like following a large letter "T". I'm going to need more space than normal to pass this guy. However, I'm travelling up Albert street, approaching the crest of the hill, where there's only a three-way stop (the opposing traffic has no stop sign) and I can't see what is coming in the opposite direction, due to the steepness of the hill. So I decide to stay behind the cycler, until I have a safe place to pass, as like I mentioned, he's fairly far out on the road, and he's got all this stuff strapped to his bike.
Before we hit the stop sign, however, he pulls onto the curb, so I have room to pass. Because my windows are open, I wave and yell 'Thanks' as I pass to the guy for letting me pass. However, he's also yelling something, that is not terribly discernible, I'm 90% sure contained the word fuck.
Pardon me, sir, for not wanting to hit either you or an oncoming car. If I ruined your day by NOT whizzing by you and knocking you off your bike or sending you careening into a ditch, please accept my sincerest apologies.
Seriously, what is wrong with people?
Oh and to add to this, today while on the Livechat at work, a guy from Pakistan told me to fuck off when I said "I'm sorry sir, I don't understand the question."