In the past 36 hours I've dealt with two situations that bothered me to  no end, for this reason:  excessive rudeness from total strangers in  situations where I was trying to be considerate.  In at least one  situation, I reacted badly, and thus continued the cycle of negativity.
Where is the love, people?
Scenario  one:  I'm at Edgefest this saturday, and I'm a little peckish, so I go  to get a hotdog.  Now, being that this is an outdoor concert at a large  venue, I'm fully prepared for the prospect of paying stupid-high prices  for something as simple as a hot dog.  So I'm only a little surprised  when I ask the hot dog vendor the price and he says 'five bucks'.   However, at the time he was handing another customer a sausage and said  'Sausage'.  I was not sure if he had misunderstood me, so to clarify I  say "That's five for a hot dog, right?"
This guy, looks me straight in the eye with a death stare and says "Did I stutter?"  I'm absolutely taken aback.  
I'll  admit, my response was not-so-eloquent.  I put my wallet back in my  pocket, gave him the finger and told him to fuck himself.  But really,  I'm already paying five bucks for a hot dog, I don't need a side of  attitude. 
Scenario Two:  I'm driving through Victoria Harbour,  on the way home from my parents place, and there's a ... hrm...  gentleman on a bike riding along the road. He has a number of cleaning  supplies strapped across his bike, so it's basically like following a  large letter "T".  I'm going to need more space than normal to pass this  guy.  However, I'm travelling up Albert street, approaching the crest  of the hill, where there's only a three-way stop (the opposing traffic  has no stop sign) and I can't see what is coming in the opposite  direction, due to the steepness of the hill.  So I decide to stay behind  the cycler, until I have a safe place to pass, as like I mentioned,  he's fairly far out on the road, and he's got all this stuff strapped to  his bike.
Before we hit the stop sign, however, he pulls onto  the curb, so I have room to pass.  Because my windows are open, I wave  and yell 'Thanks' as I pass to the guy for letting me pass.  However,  he's also yelling something, that is not terribly discernible, I'm 90%  sure contained the word fuck.
Pardon me, sir, for not wanting to  hit either you or an oncoming car.  If I ruined your day by NOT whizzing  by you and knocking you off your bike or sending you careening into a  ditch, please accept my sincerest apologies.
Seriously, what is wrong with people?
Oh and to add to this, today while on the Livechat at work, a guy from  Pakistan told me to fuck off when I said "I'm sorry sir, I don't  understand the question."
Nice.
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